Wedding

Planning for Wedding Part 6 – Preparation for Actual Day use

Wedding Montage

In the market, there are professionals that can help in doing montage, but we choose to DIY to save the money up.

We short list of photos of our own childhood till we met and included of our prewedding photos. We had it into 3 section merge together with 3 songs, I was born to love you – Queen, 이홍기 – 말이야 , Beautiful in white – Westlife.

We used the mac imovie to do it, pretty simple since we didnt expect fancy layout. We just pick up one of the template available. Input the photos, download the respective music and crop accordingly, merge them and TADA. We do it at night after work, and it took us about 3 nights to get it done. Only once we firm up the sequence the execution of each songs that play and the duration of the slide of photos then we export it out as mp4. Burn it into 2 CDs one to be brought and use on actual day, another to  be kept as spare in case of any hipcup. We also send to email to keep a copy.

Wedding Songs

Bridesmaids dress and bestmen suits

Well, I brought my girls to city plaza at paya lebar. Where they have shops selling bridemaid dress and dinnner night dress too.

City Plaza
810 Geylang road, 409286

Bought the dress as bridemaid dress for $50 each after some bargaining. As for the bestmen, is pretty easy, i bought pink ties for them and get them to wear in white shirt and black pants.

Girls actually bought me pandora charms as wedding gifts. 

Ang Bao Box

Mandarine Oriental doesnt provide Ang box thus, i got to source myself not much worries because I have this BFF who is great at artwork! Credits to Jojo! I put up a request to have a ang bao box that looks like the singpost mail box and my bff jojo get it done for me. Her hands are just so magical! >.<. I only provide the empty A4 paper box for her and she just get everything up! Many thanks for your hardwork during the difficult times of yours.

Photo Booth

We check through with several photo booth package range from $600 to $900 for 2 hours. We find that pretty expensive and we decided to DIY. We bought some of the props and the backdrop from tabao. We bought a photoprinter from harvey norman sales for 100 plus. Purchase of the additional of hundred prints to be use.

On actual day, we realize the backdrop is not required. Oriental actually had a suitable location for us to set up and just take photo. Pretty manual, so we get friends to take photo and 2 person to manage in photo printing. Manually setting will abit slower though. But what really matter is we have all the softcopies.

Additional Purchase of wines

Oriental actuall only provide complimentary of one bottle of wine per confirmed table. We had 35 tables in total, and we prepared to buy additional wine. So we went to wine connection at greenwhich to pic and spend $314 sgd for additional wines.

Shoes & hair accessories for actual day

I was searching across for wedding shoes to be wore on actual day and came across prettyfit at wisma atrium. My feet is pretty small, is really hard to get myself a pair of right size shoes. But i left with not much time, thus i just bought the platform wedges heel. I stuff 3 layers of heel grip and 2 layer of insoles for size 5 shoes.

I also need to do some homework to have an idea what hairdo i would like to have for my actual day. So i simply just went to taobao and search for bridal hair accessories and screen through the hair design. At the same time i bought some of the hair accessories, as z wedding doesnt provide hair accessories, if i need, i need to get them myself.

MC speeches

Emcee’s Script
No Time Event Speech Remarks
1 7:50pm Invitation to be seated (E) Good evening ladies & gentlemen. As dinner will be commencing shortly, may we invite everyone to kindly take to your seats. Thank you.
2 Invitation to be seated (M) 各位嘉宾,晚宴即将开始,请各位嘉宾们就桌。 谢谢
3 8.00pm Introduction by MC (E) Good evening Mr. & Mrs. ONG YEE LIM , Mr. & Mrs. SOH BENG GHEE, ladies and gentlemen. My name is EVAN and together with HUI PING we will be your emcees for this evening. On behalf of Chee Siang and Shuxian, we would like to thank each and every one of you for taking the time to grace this joyous occasion.
4 Introduction by MC (M) 各位嘉宾,各位亲友,大家晚上好,我是 HUI PING, 站在我身旁这为位是我的搭挡司仪 EVAN。 今晚是[王怡林]夫妇的幼男[王郅翔]与[苏明义] 夫妇的幼女[苏淑贤]的结婚晚宴,我们在此代表双方父母, 感谢大家今晚抽出宝贵的时间到此分享他们的喜悦。
5 8.10pm Play Montage (E) Without further ado, we would like to warmly welcome Chee Siang & Shuxian. But before that, let us share their special moments. Please sit back, relax and enjoy.
6 Play Montage (M) 在 我 们 迎 接 这 对 新 人 之 前 ,让 我 们 先 欣 赏 一 个 短 片, 看 看[郅翔]与[淑贤]的成 长过 程
7 First March In of bride and groom (E) And now, the moment we have all been waiting for,please rise and put your hands together to welcome the lovely couple [Chee Siang] & [Shuxian].
8 First March In of bride and groom (M) 各位嘉宾,我相信这是我们所期待已久的时刻 , 请各位起立,让我们以最热的掌声欢迎新郎,新娘入席
First March In Song
8.15pm Door Opens Flower Girl Nicole March in with flowers & flowers basket helding on left hand, follow by the dry ice and couples march in
9 Guest to be seated (E) Ladies and gentlemen, please be seated.
10 Guest to be seated (M) 请各位嘉宾就座
11 Cake cutting (E) Now may we invite the couples on stage for the cake cutting ceremony please.
12 Cake cutting (M) 现在有请新郎,新娘举行切蛋糕仪式。谢谢 。
After Cake Cutting (E) Thank you the lovely couple. without much further ado, dinner will be served. Please Enjoy tonight’s dinner.
After Cake Cutting (M) 谢 谢 各 位,晚 宴 即 将 开 始 请大家尽情享用!
First to Fifth Course Presentation – Music
8:25pm Dinner Commence
13 9.00pm Morning Highlights (E) Ladies and gentleman, we hope that you have enjoyed the dinner so far. Let us focus our attention to the screen again to revisit some of the exciting moments that took place this morning.
14 Morning Highlights (M) 让我们一起来看今早新郎迎娶新娘精彩片段。
15 9.15pm Second Entry of bride and groom (E) Ladies & gentlemen, please rise and get ready to shower the flower petals prepared on the table to welcome the newly weds back to the ballroom.
16 Second Entry of bride and groom (M) 请拿起已准备的花瓣欢迎新郎新娘再次入场。
Second March In Song
17 Pouring of champagne (E) Let us now invite [Chee Siang] & [Shuxian] on stage for the champagne pouring ceremony.
18 Pouring of champagne (M) 让我们请新郎新娘上台进行开香滨仪式
19 Couple Toast (E) Shall we now have [Chee Siang] & [Shuxian] to present a toast to one another
20 Couple Toast (M) 让我们请这对新人相敬交杯酒。祝他们相敬如宾,永浴爱河!
21 Yam Seng Toast (E) Now ladies & gentlemen, may we please invite [Chee Siang]’s and [Shuxian]’s parents together with their families on stage to present a toast to the couple. For the 1st, 2nd, 3rd toast… Thank you ladies & gentlemen, please be seated.
22 Yam Seng Toast (M) 在此邀请双方家长与兄弟姐妹上台向各位敬酒。请各位站起来举起手中的杯,以三声饮胜来祝贺这对新人白头偕老,永结同心,早生贵子。
23 Thank you Speech on bahalf for the couples (E) On behalf of Chee Siang & Shuxian, they would like to thanks all the family members, friends and colleagues for making time to attend their wedding today. Special thanks to the brothers & sisters for helping out from day to night. The couples hope all of you have enjoyed the dinner! They will soon be making rounds to take photography and thanks you personally.
Thank you Speech on bahalf for the couples (M) 这对新人感激各位今晚抽出宝贵的时间参加[郅翔]与[淑贤]婚礼 。稍 候 , 他 们 会 与 各 桌 嘉 宾 拍 照 , 请 大 家 继 续 享 用 美 食 。
24 9.45pm Photography of individual tables
Last Dish Serve
25 10.30pm End of dinner (E) With that, on behalf of[Chee Siang] & [Shuxian] and their families, [Hui Ping] and I would like to once again thank everyone for gracing this occasion. We hope that you have enjoyed the celebration as much as we have enjoyed hosting it to you. We wish a pleasant evening ahead. Thank you.
26 End of dinner (M) 天下无不散的宴席。今晚的婚宴已到了尾声。再次代表[郅翔]与[淑贤]感谢您的莅临。祝各位晚安!
End of Dinner

Actual Day schedule and task

Date Time Event People involved Actions needed Remarks
08-Mar
19-Mar 17:00 Collection of Gown @ Zwedding Check for accessories, corsages, car, suits x 2, gown x3, father jacket x 2
20-Mar 11:00 – 16:00 JB to KSL for nails & massage
21-Mar 6:30 – 7:00 Arrival of sister @ SX house, preparation Sisters Prep for Gate Crash Sisters to be in dressup
6:30 – 7:15 Wake up to wash up and comb hair Sx & parents Combing hair Have breakfast * sandwhich
6:30 – 7:30 CS to wake up to wash up CS Chaeffuer to pick CS by 7:20 Get in full white suit and hair do (shoe) + flower hand bouquet, Refer Appendix A
7:30 – 8:30 Arrival of MUA for make up & hair do Amber & Sx
7:30 Arrival of Photographer & Videographer @ Sx hse Chris Ling – Max & Zhiying
7:30 – 745 CS to travel to SX hse CS & brothers Brother to take the roast pig from car, place ang bao on it and bring to sx hse
7:45 Jun Long to open Car door for CS JL Sister to get JL ready
Brother to take the roast pig from Car & place the ang bao on it Brother
7:45 – 8:30 Gate Crash Session Cs, Brothers & Sisters CS & brothers to reach SX hse by 7:45
8:40 – 8:50 Photo taking at SX place with parents & sisters & brothers ALL
*8:50 To leave sx house Cs, sx, Brothers & Sisters *Time keeper to watch time closely
8:50 – 9:20 Cs House to Bai & eat sweet soup Cs, sx, Brothers & Sisters
9:30 – 10:00 Depart to Adora Green to change for tea dress Cs, sx, Brothers & Sisters MJ to help manage in gowns Refer to Appendix B
Ang bao keeper to take care of 2 bags (In, Out)
Make sure the buffet comes by 10:00 -10:30 Susan
10:00 – 12:00 Tea Ceremony at Sx place + Lunch Cs, sx, Brothers & Sisters QM to help in tea serving, ang bao keeper to help collect & prepare issue ready ang bao Time keeper to take extra careful with time, spare time to inform sx and may have time to take photo at hotel area
12:00 – 12:30 Head to Photo taking area Cs, sx, Brothers & Sisters +(nicole) Bitmap

Upper Seletar Reservoir for the standalone tree against the reservoir waters
12:30 – 14:00 Photo taking Cs, sx, Brothers & Sisters +(nicole) (inclusive @ mandarin oriental if possible)
13:30 Check in to hotel – 3 rooms Parents, Sister, brother, JL, JF Appendix C
14:00 Chris Ling Team to leave Chris Ling – Max & Zhiying Time check 7:30 – 14:00 = 6.5 Hours
14:00 – 1530 Check In to hotel change back to first gown CS, SX MJ to help manage in gowns
14:00 Rest & Relax Sisters & brother
15:30 – 16:30 Tea Ceremony at hotel for CS side CS, SX, Esther & QM QM to help coordinate with jenny to the place, tea & tea set prepared by hotel Harbour View Suite on level 5 for the tea ceremony
16:30 – 17:30 Bath & Change ( R&R) CS, SX
16:30 – 18:00 Make up for Mothers Mother & mother in law Make up artist Z wedding may To give $50 to her for transport
17:00 – 19:00 Emcee, AV set up run through, Photo booth setup Brothers, Evan, Hp, HP, ken, nicole Reharasal for emcee & flower gal
17:30 Set up Receptions & get Ready Coordination meeting with hotel & staff Esther, Jing Wen , MJ , JF Display of photo ablum, angbao box, get stationary from hotel & complimentary carpark Ensure they wrote names paste the table code sticker on it, 5% car park complimentary to susan
17:45 – 18:45 Make up Sx & Amber
19:00 – 20:00 Guest Photo taking SX, CS QM to help me down to reception area
19:30 Arrival of Chris Ling team – Max & Zhiying Max & Zhiying
19:00 Cocktail reception commence Reception to check up to 85% attendance arrival, JingWen to cue jenny to open ballroom door
* someone to take care recep for late comers
20:00 Commencement of Dinner
20:15 Keeping of ang bao box to hotel room Eunice & Susan
20:25 Get Nicole to prepare for flower throwing for 1st March in Nicole, Cs, Sx
21:00 Change to 2nd gown for 2nd March In SX, MJ, JW, Amber MJ & JW to help in changing on 3rd dish
21:20 2nd March In CS & SX
21:30 – 23:00 Photo taking CS, SX, Family, Brothers Preset for Photo taking
23:00 Sending guest after dinner ends. CS, SX, Family
23:00 Chris Ling team to leave Max & Zhiying Time check 19:30 – 23:00 = 3.5 Hours
Counting of ang baos & Tracking * Collect the remaining wedding favors & get a pair of keys wedding favors from jenny, request a bag to hold
1300 – 1400 Spa & massage
1500 Check out + full payment
*** Get brothers & Sister to make necessary payment for their AMEX card
Appendix A Things to bring from CS house
Hair dryer
Cds for songs
Mac book
Appendix B Things to bring from Adora Green house
Photobooth package stuff
All montage & photos
Photoshoot album & photo frame
Ang bao box
Red Wines
Shoes for tea dress
Tea dress
dinner gown
Appendix C Things to bring from SX house
hair accessories
make up set & brushes
contact lens
Jewellery bag
make up remover
ang baos to be issued
Gowns
Charger & cables
Portable charger
Luaggage
toiletries set
Flower basket

Order Catering for Actual Day at mum place

As i will be back to my mum’s place for tea ceremony, dad decided to invite his colleagues to home for buffet as he couldnt invite many of the colleagues for wedding dinner. I discuss with sis and decided to order from 2 source to have greater variety. I prefer english style buffet over the traditional chinese. But mostly are relatives and dad’s colleague we ought to have some chinese food to fill their stomach up.

We ordered from Neo Garden and Mei hao for the lunch buffets 30 pax each and $862.42 sgd.

 

Prepare of Ang baos to be issued on actual day

Ang Bao List Qty Rates Total:
Roast Pig 1 38 38
Open Car Door 1 38 38
Sisters gate Crash 6 58 348
Brothers 6 38 228
MCs 2 28 56
Tea ceremony sx – close 10 20 200
Tea ceremony sx – so-so 10 10 100
Tea ceremony cs – close 10 20 200
Tea ceremony cs – so-so 10 10 100
parents mua – may $50 0
Mhelps 4 18 72

Guest List Confirmation and Table Arrangement

After we got hold of our invitation cards, we send to those who we had confirmed their attendance with us beforehand through facebook and whatsapp. Well, be prepare that there are last minute people who cant make it. It is just part and parcel.

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